I had another rough day, exhaustion & needed to sleep for much of the day. I'm really looking forward to this symptom of whatever going away.

Today is Wifi Wifie's birthday and we went out for dinner. She asked me a couple of times if I wanted to go for a cigarette, I just said "No". After the main she asked again & this time I just looked at her.

Wifie Wifey: "Why are you looking at me like that?"
Me: continued looking
WW: "Have you given up or something?"
Me: "Yes"
WW: looks in disbelief "When?"
Me: "4 weeks ago"
WW: "Why?"
Me: "I don't want to die"
WW: "Why didn't you tell me?"
Me: For the first couple fo days I didn't want any additional stress. Since then I've been waiting for you to realise.

It's a relief that it's finally out of the bag as I'd been getting rather bored of the "say nothing" game.

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    Maanu said:
    02 October 2014

    That's far out that she took so long to notice. I used to be very hairy then I cut it all off. People that hardly knew me noticed straight away. The guy that I worked with everyday took a week and even then I had to ask him if he noticed anything different. Nice stats. Three cubed, well done.

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    aimee7 said:
    02 October 2014

    That's awesome news! Bet she was surprised.

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    Unis said:
    02 October 2014

    Yay, at least it is out of the bag.

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    breathe said:
    02 October 2014

    wow 4 weeks and she didn,t know? lol you hid that well,

    keep it up you are doing well.

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    Sexymwahz said:
    03 October 2014

    Happy Birthday Wifi Wifey and Im proud that on her birthday you gifted her a smokefree You.. Congratz on your amazing statz Bruce C. I really love the way that you have gone about your journey. Kia kaha, kia maia, kia manawatoa - Your strength, and courage enables a strong heart. ~mw(",)h~

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    Thunderbirds are go said:
    03 October 2014

    Wow. My family noticed straight away, not my workmates though. Well done on your 4 weeks :)

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    Julia C said:
    03 October 2014

    Thanks all. 4 weeks @ midnight tonight! When I started this journey I really didn't think I could make 1 weeks, now I know I can go forever.



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    josienz1958 said:
    03 October 2014

    And they say men never notice anything - I hope she praised you heaps cos you deserve it.

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    Elevtheria said:
    03 October 2014

    hahaha... would have loved to see the face of Wifi Wifie LOL. Well done Bruce on the 4 weeks and happy belated birthday to your Wifi Wifie :)

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    lemony snickets said:
    03 October 2014

    Out and proud Bruce, gud on ya mate :)